Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Fun Therapy

Its not everyday you come across a person or a group of people who share d same views and perception as you.
Its practically hard to find anyone like that. So how does a human being survive in a world where theres always a war of words or ideas whether political,religious or simply emotional. And keep himself mentally and physically happy or satisfied.
The solution or cure or even precaution to all the madness, no matter how sane you think you are, is "Therapy".
And by Therapy, I do not mean your mad or you need a shrink. By therapy, I mean "fun therapy". You or we can start a group which meets regularly or on alternate days and plays the role of a wingman in times of fun or crisis no matter how big or small. But not grusome or devious. A group which not only accepts but also does not totally reflect u but also contradicts sometimes even to a boiling point ur views and ideas. More like an intervention but with strangers who turn friends over a period of time. 
So how is this different from going to a shrink. Well there is no right or wrong method here and neither are you being charged outrageously by the hour. It not the kind of therapy that will continue for years at length, with no fruitful outcome or breakthrough. Its more like a party or outing with friends or new faces you meet online through a trusted friend.
Its always easier to listen to a new friend about how they percieve you and how u should change ur life or they can help change your life through their own experiences. You might not totally agree but you will atleast listen and go long with their idea, sometimes not to hurt their feelings and sometimes to try a different or new perspective or experiment or challenge in your life.
In the end you feel better about yourself and want to continue making such decisions which affect your life positively.
Social network groups like facebook,whatsapp groups,etc. made by a new friend is always the best way to begin "Fun therapy".










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